Wish of a Spinster!!!

.:).

Yeah u r rite that’s about her hubby…..

He need not look stunning and handsome …..They are all clichés…..the ones that matter are:

The first prerequisite I except of my husband—no it isn’t the ability to get me anything I wish for, that’s the second—-the first one is the ability to understand me with utmost care (Which for sure is the best of all I could get in the world) .

He must sleep in my lap and allow me into his. He must run his hand into my hair and fight me with pillows as often as he can teasing me at me at my childishness.(Yeah!!!He should take care of me like a child…and we should be the best of friends:).:).:).)

When the curry isn’t nice, he should always be ready to help in preparing another besides cracking some funny jokes to forget the hunger.

When he is downright tried he need not flirt with me to win a cup of tea or a glass of cold water but instead must be ready to blow a kiss any time he feels that-the best moments in his life are my love and care for him. (And I am very keen on compliments showered on me every now and then:).)

He must spend time with me to encourage my interests which are apart from family concerns (Obviously I would do the same) .We should build up atleast one common area of interest so that we can enjoy our retirement working towards that interest.

He should call me nicknames and how innovative he coins out new ones the better and he must be prepared to confront some deadly ones in return .He can call me anything and should flirt with me to gain special attention.

He should take the initiative of taking up responsibilities and I am writing to sacrifice my dreams for his, supporting him every way I can—-no matter how hard and difficult it is for me to cope.

He must sit with me shoulder in shoulder when we watch the late night movie together and must oblige to yes to anything I wish at the moment ….(Of course I will be careful with my wishes [:P])

He has got every right to disturb me, which I will bear,—–no matter how busy and serious I am with our household chores but he should be willing to help incase I am stuck up [:p]

He should divulge all his secrets to me despite knowing that I might get peeved by it (considering that I am over possessive:).) and so should soothe me(pamper me) and obviously promise that he will not let it happen again.

On the rare occasions when we might fight and then go on a mourning spree, he should change the topic and pause the fight. We can always unpause it and argue over the issue later .

And finally, he must have a higher life expectancy than me .I may not be able to live without him…….

My Dream…..:)

Professionalism….:)

Infy has taught me a lot about it…Which is a good foundation for my Carrier..Though Iwas Confused intially to make a choice between MS or a job in well reputed MNC…

But I think I have made a right decision by opting Infy,as it helped me to know about the competitive world around…which is ruled by amazing managerial skills,Good work etiquitte…and more importantly the Attitude towards life to move ahead successfully…

When I think about My ultimate dream role…Director of a well known School in India…:). Ofcourse it’s a dream….Where
in my students are expected to be proffessionals some day…for which I should know what Proffessionalism is and have to live in it for some time atleast…I thank Infy for giving me such a Learning opportunity within it…

Where I have come across Inspiring women like Rama Devi N.S(Head of Infosys Bangalore),Sudha murthy(My Role model)and all the young and Enthusiastic PM’s whom I have worked with…Its no more a dream now…It’s a real time Amibition Boosted by the great Women serving Infosys..Well as every girl in india ..though I have many constriants to work upon my plans…A plan that urges to visit all the well known Eductional Institutions around the globe…which would help me to know various learning methodologies adopted by them…(Temples of knowledge)I could say proudly…but as a typical telugu girl I am not encouraged to travel
alone much….

As every lock has its key made…there will be an alternative to reach my goal…looking forward to future for such a day…where I would be helping many students turning into good citizens…

The strong reason behind the Passion is.I like to encourage others …and feel very happy…when I could help someone in knowing their strenghts to move ahead sucessfully in their lives…

Just alll vague ideas building up…Hopefully they land up in my dream Eductional Instution …Which I could never stop Dreaming about….:)

education-into that heaven of freedom

Rabindranath tagore on education

I all ways feel this is how the place of learning should be this is my all time favorite poem .

Where the mind is without fear

and the head is held high,

Where knowledge is free;

Where the world has not been broken

up into fragments by narrow domestic

walls;

Where words come out from the

depth of truth;

Where tireless striving

stretches its arms towards

perfection;

Where the clear stream of reason

has not lost its way into the

dreary desert sand of dead habit;

Where the mind is led forward

by thee into ever-widening

thought and action–

into that heaven of freedom,

my Father,

Let my country awake.

book I’ve read recently

Book “The present ” -by spencer johnson is really a wonderful present for anyone who wish to know the secret of happy life

This book gives three simple techniques applying them any one can get sucess in their endeavour

1) Always live in the present( this helps to improve ur concentration and hence u can enjoy the work u do)

2)Learn from the past(this not only helps in making the present better than past but also helps u to stop regretting on the past)

3) Plan for the future(this reduces ur anxiety abt future and makes ur work more planned)

U will enjoying applying this three simple techniques in ur life and they will certainly make differnce on ur life

u r welcome to discuss more on this …